You’re in your 20s, trying to figure it all out — building a career, navigating relationships, and maybe even trying to find out who you are outside of other people’s expectations. From the outside, everything looks fine. You’re showing up, doing the work, smiling in meetings, replying to texts. But on the inside? You feel stuck.
Maybe you’re not even sure why. You just know something feels off.
That invisible heaviness, the loop of self-doubt, the pressure to “have it together” — it builds. And if you’re also dealing with stress, bullying at work, undiagnosed ADHD, or low confidence, that feeling can become all-consuming.
So, What Does It
Actually
Mean to Feel Stuck?
“Stuck” doesn’t always look like rock bottom. Sometimes it looks like being in a job that’s okay but drains you. Or spending hours overthinking every decision, every email, every conversation. You’re busy, but not fulfilled. You’re achieving, but not celebrating. You’re functioning, but not thriving.
For many young women we work with at Exceed Coaching Ltd, this sense of being stuck is like an emotional fog. You’re unsure whether it’s burnout, fear of failure, or just life not matching up with what you thought your 20s would feel like.
And then there’s the added weight of being a woman in today’s workforce. You’re trying to be assertive but not “too much.” You want to grow, but imposter syndrome creeps in. You second-guess your value, your voice, and your potential — especially if you’ve experienced bullying, microaggressions, or constant comparison at work.
The ADHD Layer (Even If You’re Undiagnosed)
If you’ve ever described yourself as “scattered,” “always behind,” or “never able to finish things,” you might be dealing with ADHD — diagnosed or not. It’s one of the most underdiagnosed conditions in women, especially those who’ve been taught to mask their struggles and push through.
ADHD isn’t just about focus. It’s about how you process the world — the sensitivity, the emotional intensity, the time blindness, and the perfectionism that leads to procrastination. It can create an internal war between who you want to be and what your brain will let you do.
That disconnect feeds directly into the feeling of being stuck — no matter how capable, smart, or creative you are.
Pressure, Perfection, and Performance
Let’s talk about pressure. It’s everywhere — from social media, your workplace, your friends, and even from within. You might be telling yourself things like:
- “I should be further ahead by now.”
- “Everyone else seems to be doing better.”
- “I need to prove I’m good enough.”
This pressure doesn’t motivate — it paralyzes. It keeps you operating from fear instead of inspiration. It fuels stress, anxiety, and a never-ending loop of “not enough.” And the more you push yourself without pausing to ask why, the deeper into survival mode you go.
Survival mode is where growth stops. Confidence shrinks. Mindset narrows. And you begin to believe this stuckness is permanent.
But here’s the truth:
Feeling stuck is not a sign that you’re failing. It’s a sign that you’re ready to grow.
You’re Not Broken — You’re Burnt Out
At Exceed Coaching Ltd, we want to challenge the idea that your 20s should be about pushing through stress and ignoring the signs that something isn’t right. If you’re waking up tired, dreading work, zoning out in meetings, or constantly questioning yourself — that’s not laziness or weakness.
That’s your inner self calling for support. For clarity. For space to breathe.
And you don’t need to do it alone.
There’s a Way Forward — And It Starts With a Mindset Shift
The first step to moving forward is understanding where you’re at — mentally, emotionally, and practically. That’s why we’ve created a free guide and quiz designed specifically for women like you: ambitious, self-aware, and ready for something more, but just needing a little help to get there.
✨ Click here to take the FREE quiz and download your guide now ✨
It only takes a few minutes — and it can give you powerful insights into your stress patterns, mindset blocks, and the support you actually need to move forward.
This isn’t about “fixing” you — it’s about freeing you.
Coaching That Gets It — Because We’ve Been There
We know what it’s like to feel stuck in a cycle of overthinking, self-sabotage, and stress. To smile on the outside while screaming on the inside. Whether you’re managing ADHD, navigating workplace bullying, or simply exhausted from trying to live up to impossible standards, we’re here to help you break that cycle.
Through our 1:1 coaching, group sessions, and free tools, we focus on:
- Confidence building without toxic positivity
- ADHD-friendly strategies that actually work
- Mindset rewiring that doesn’t feel like fluff
- Navigating pressure and stress with resilience
- Breaking free from people-pleasing and burnout
You don’t have to be “perfect” to get support. You just have to be ready to try something new.
Imagine This Version of You…
- You wake up with clarity and direction, not dread.
- You speak up in meetings without second-guessing yourself.
- You finish projects (yes, even the ones you’ve been avoiding for months).
- You stop letting fear and comparison drive your decisions.
- You finally feel free — from pressure, from old patterns, from being stuck.
That version of you isn’t far away. She’s already in you — waiting to be released. Coaching is the bridge.
Ready to Get Unstuck? Let’s Do This Together.
You don’t need to keep fighting through your 20s. You don’t need to stay small, stay silent, or stay stuck. Whether you’re working through stress, ADHD, low confidence, or the aftershocks of bullying — there is a way through.
Start by taking that first free step. The quiz and guide will help you get honest with where you are, and give you a clear path toward where you want to be.
👉 Click here to take your FREE quiz and download the guide today
Your breakthrough might be one click away.
Because you’re not lost. You’re just ready for the next level.
And we’re here to help you EXCEED.